The Boss. Mom. Woman. Collective
Here's What Fragmentation Actually Looks Like
You've accomplished what you set out to do.
Career goals checked off.
Business growing.
Family responsibilities handled.
But here's the truth: while you were accomplishing it all, you sacrificed so much of yourself that you don't recognize who's looking back in the mirror anymore. You've become so many versions of yourself—work-you, mom-you, friend-you, partner-you—that there's no core left.
You can't sleep. Your body is tense—jaw clenched, shoulders in your ears. You're snapping at people you love. You're getting sick constantly.
And the worst part? You don't even know who you actually are anymore.
You've fragmented yourself to build the life everyone expected. And your nervous system is paying the price.
WELCOME
I'm Coach jazemine
And I was you. A high-achieving woman of color navigating systems not built for me, trying to prove my worth by doing it all, and burning out in the process.
I was everyone's go-to person, the family CEO, the problem-solver, the one who held it all together. But I realized I was so busy being indispensable to everyone else that I had become invisible to myself.
Then, I became sick for six months straight. Fragmenting across work-me, mom-me, friend-me. Breaking down.
My husband and friends called me out: "You're giving everything to work and dying in the process."
That's when everything shifted. I learned to regulate my nervous system, reclaim my authentic identity, and prioritize myself without guilt. My sleep improved. My boundaries got stronger. I felt peace for the first time in years.
But here's what I realized: I couldn't have done it alone. And neither can you.
I built this work for high-achieving women like me, especially women of color, who are tired of fragmenting, ready to come back to themselves, and willing to do it with community support.
Coach Jazemine
Your Identity and Nervous System Coach & Recovering People-Pleaser
Three pillars. One integrated, unapologetic self.
How Real Transformation Actually Happens
BECOME
Calm your nervous system so you can think clearly and make choices from peace, not panic. Learn what actually regulates YOU—not generic techniques.
REGULATE
Live from this integrated, regulated, unapologetic place. Make choices from alignment. Stop fragmenting. Start living as yourself.
RECLAIM
Reclaim yourself unapologetically. Remember who you actually are outside your titles, roles, and what everyone needs from you. Rebuild your core identity. Take back the parts of yourself you've hidden to fit in.
Why High-Achieving Women Work With Me
I'm Not Going to Sell You Another Hustle You've heard it all. Work harder. Do more. Optimize your time. Push through. Most coaches? They're still selling you the lie that if you just GET IT TOGETHER, everything will work. I'm not that coach. I know the truth: you're not broken because you can't hustle hard enough. You're breaking down because your nervous system is screaming and nobody's listening. Especially not you. And underneath all that dysregulation? You've lost yourself trying to fulfill everyone else's desires instead of living the life YOU actually want.
I've Been You As a high-achieving woman of color, I didn't just study fragmentation, I lived it. Sick for months. Code-switching constantly. Burning out in systems not built for me. I know the specific pressure you face navigating ambition, identity, and the invisible weight of proving your worth. I've walked this path. I know the cost. And I know the way back.
I'm Teaching You to Regulate, Reclaim Your Identity, and Prioritize Yourself So You Don't Need Me Forever This isn't about creating clients for life. This is about teaching you how to listen to your nervous system, honor your identity, and reclaim the parts of yourself you've abandoned. You'll learn tools you keep forever. You'll build relationships with women you keep forever. But the dependency? That ends. Because the goal is for you to be whole, integrated, unapologetic, and living a life designed by YOU, not reliant on me to tell you who you are or what you should want. You're learning to live your desired life. Not someone else's.
I Build Community, Not Dependence You won't need me forever, and that's the point. My goal isn't to keep you coaching with me indefinitely. It's to teach you how to regulate, reclaim, and become unapologetically yourself, with support from a community of women who actually get it. You're learning tools you keep. You're building connections that last. You're becoming independent and integrated.
I Understand the Specific Pressure of Being a High-Achieving Woman of Color The systems you navigate were not built for you. The pressure to prove yourself is real. The isolation is real. The code-switching is real. I don't ask you to explain this or convince me it's hard. I already know. And I know how to help you stay in your power while navigating these systems unapologetically.
Listen sis,
You didn't get here overnight, and you won't get out overnight. But you CAN start today.
Ready to reclaim your life? Here's How We Do It Together
Our Services
What Boss Mom Women
Are Saying
"Before working with Jazemine, I felt like a fraud. Successful on paper but dying inside. Now I actually LIKE the woman I see in the mirror." - Sarah, Marketing Executive & Mom of 2
"I thought I needed work-life balance. Turns out I needed a complete life rebrand. Best investment I've ever made." - Angela, Attorney & Mom of 1
Let's Get Real About Self-Prioritization
It's not selfish to prioritize yourself.
In fact, it's necessary.
When you're dysregulated, fragmenting, and running on empty, everyone around you suffers. Your family, your work, your relationships—they all feel the cost of your burnout.
But when you prioritize YOUR nervous system, YOUR identity, YOUR peace? Everything shifts.
You show up differently. You lead differently. You love differently. You're not running on fumes anymore.
This isn't about abandoning your responsibilities. It's about doing them from a regulated, whole, integrated place instead of survival mode.
You deserve to know who you are. You deserve to feel at peace in your own body. You deserve to make choices from choice, not crisis.
And you can't do it alone.
You Already Know Something Needs to Change.
The question is: when?
Join my community
The Lock-In
Lounge
Join us live!
Join Our
Prioritized Pour Live
Therapy hour meets happy hour - but make it about YOU for once.
Bi-weekly, grab your favorite drink (mocktail or cocktail - we don't judge) and join our B.M.W. community for real talk about rebranding your life.
This isn't your typical coaching call. It's a girl chat with a purpose. We pour into ourselves while I pour wisdom about boundaries, identity, and living authentically.
What to Expect:
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Real conversations about the struggles of high-achieving motherhood
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Practical prioritization & Nervous system tips you can use immediately
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A safe space to admit you're not okay with just being 'fine.'
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Community with women who GET IT
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Permission to prioritize yourself without guilt
When: Bi-weekly on Thursdays at 6 pm PST
Where: Google Meet
What to Bring: Your favorite drink and an open mind
It's the highlight of our week - and it could be yours too.
Let's Get Real About Your Concerns
Q: I don't have time for coaching. How is this different?
A: Sis, you don't have time NOT to do this work. We're not adding more to your plate - we're redesigning your entire plate so it actually serves you.
Q: Who is this for?
A: High-achieving women—especially women of color—who are fragmenting, burned out, and ready for real change. If you're doing it all and feeling empty, this is for you.
Q: How is this different from other coaching?
A: I focus on your nervous system and identity—not goals or strategies. I understand the specific pressure of being a high-achieving woman of color navigating systems not built for you. You can't think your way out of fragmentation. You have to regulate and reclaim. That's the work we do here.
Q: Do I have to commit to something?
A: No. Start free with the 7-day reset. Then choose what works for you (community, coaching, workbook, or nothing). Zero pressure.
Q: Can I really change?
A: Yes. If you're willing to regulate, reclaim, and do the work—not alone, but with support and guidance from someone who's lived it. Change is possible. I'm proof of it.
Q: Is this only for moms?
A: No. This is for any high-achieving woman—moms, entrepreneurs, executives, creatives—who's lost herself in her roles and titles.
